The Most Common Boudoir Myths

As a seasoned boudoir photographer with 8 years of experience and a passion for helping others in the industry, I've encountered my fair share of myths and misconceptions surrounding boudoir photography. In this blog, I'll debunk the most common myths and provide you with insights that will not only clear the air but also help you appreciate the art and beauty of boudoir photography.

Myth #1: Boudoir Photography is Only for Models

This is perhaps one of the most prevalent myths in the world of boudoir photography. The truth is, boudoir photography is for everyone and everyBODY! It's about celebrating your unique beauty and personality. You don't need to be a professional model to look stunning in boudoir photos. A skilled photographer can guide and pose you to highlight your best features.

Myth #2: Boudoir Photography is Inherently Sexual

Boudoir photography is often mistaken for something purely erotic or pornographic. In reality, it's about capturing sensuality and confidence, not explicit content. Boudoir images can be as modest or as revealing as the client feels comfortable with. It's all about empowerment and self-expression.

Myth #3: Boudoir Photography is Only for Women

While boudoir photography is often associated with women, it's not limited to one gender. Men can also embrace the art of boudoir photography, and there's a growing demand for itβ€” its called Dudeoir. I dont offer this but I do have friends who do, and I would be happy to recommend. I do also shoot with couples! Everyone deserves to feel confident and sexy, regardless of gender.

Myth #4: You Need a Perfect Body for Boudoir Photos

No one has a perfect body, and boudoir photography isn't about perfection. It's about embracing your unique body and feeling great about yourself. Skilled photographers know how to pose and light their subjects to flatter their individual shapes and sizes.

Myth #5: Boudoir Photography is Expensive

While professional boudoir photography may seem costly, it's important to consider it as an investment in self-confidence and self-love. Many photographers offer packages that cater to different budgets. I offer payment plans that can be spread out up to 6 months, so dont let the investment scare you away. If youre interested in another option financing option, you can always apply for paypal credit which is similar to Klarna and Afterpay Apply here

Keep in mind, the memories and boost in confidence you gain are truly priceless.

Myth #6: You Need a Fancy Wardrobe for Boudoir Shoots

You don't need an extensive lingerie collection for a successful boudoir shoot. A skilled boudoir photographer can work with what you have and help you choose outfits that complement your style and personality. I send all my clients a guide on how to prepare for their shoot that includes a list of my favorite places to shop for lingerie, I also did another blog post about it: Read it here

Myth #7: Boudoir Photography is Awkward and Uncomfortable

A professional boudoir photographer is experienced in creating a comfortable and relaxed environment during the shoot. You'll be guided through the process, and the focus is on your comfort and enjoyment. We will also play your favorite music while you get pampered in the hair and makeup process and during your shoot so you can channel your inner vixen and enjoy the experience dancing in between poses.


Boudoir photography is a beautiful and empowering art form that should be accessible to everyone, regardless of gender, body shape, or preconceived notions. It's about celebrating your unique self and feeling confident in your own skin. I hope this blog has shed light on some common misconceptions and inspired you to embrace the world of boudoir photography.

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